Pre-Assessment · 4-Part Training Series

From Managing Behaviors
to Healing Them

Discover where you are today — and where this training will take you.

Presented by Betty Peralta & Amelia Bolyard

This brief self-assessment is designed to help you see yourself clearly before we begin — and to give you a glimpse of what's possible. There are no right or wrong answers. Rate each statement honestly based on where you are right now. We'll revisit these at the end of our time together.

1Not yet like me
2Rarely like me
3Sometimes like me
4Often like me
5Consistently like me
Understanding Behavior as Communication
Days 1 & 4 · Paradigm Shifts · The 4 Brain Systems
1

When a child acts out, I naturally interpret their behavior as a stress response or nervous system signal rather than willful defiance or a behavior problem.

2

I can distinguish between adaptive stress (growth-promoting) and toxic stress (harmful) when observing children in my care.

3

I am familiar with how the 4 brain systems interact to shape a child's behavior.

Co-Regulation & Nervous System Awareness
Days 2 & 3 · Energy Zones · Safety-Challenge-Threat
4

I can assess a child's nervous system state (e.g., using Energy Zones or similar frameworks) and adjust my approach accordingly in the moment.

5

I use co-regulation strategies — intentional, sustained practices that help children shift from dysregulation into a state ready for learning and connection.

6

I understand how to use the Safety-Challenge-Threat framework to move children and families from compliance toward genuine cooperation.

Relationship as the Intervention
Day 3 · Attunement · Repair · Presence · Safety
7

I intentionally assess the relational safety between myself and a child or family before attempting intervention or instruction.

8

I consistently prioritize my own nervous system health as a professional practice — recognizing that my regulated state is essential to the children and families I serve.

Holistic & NeuroRelational Practice
Days 1–4 · NRF · Integration · Community of Practice
9

When addressing a child's behavior, I consider a range of factors — relational, physiological, environmental, and developmental — rather than focusing on the behavior itself.

10

I feel confident translating neurodevelopmental knowledge into concrete daily actions in my classroom, caregiving environment, or clinical setting.

One question to sit with...

Think of a child (or family) whose behavior has challenged you recently. What story have you been telling yourself about why they act that way — and how might that story shift if behavior were always communication?

out of 50

This is your baseline. By August 24th, every one of these statements will feel different.